Why do men like going down on women
7 Dudes Share What It Feels Like to Perform Oral Sex on a Woman
I enjoy going down on women. It makes me feel good to comprehend that the person I'm with is (hopefully) really enjoying herself.
Apparently, that's a sentiment most dudes share, according to Jane Greer, Ph.D., a New York-based relationship expert and author ofWhat About Me? Stop Selfishness From Ruining Your Relationship. "It gives them a sense of accomplishment," says Greer.
Ever wonder (or worry) what other feels guys have when they take a trip down south? I asked several men for their input:
"It's really satisfying for me."
"I just think it's super hot. It's really satisfying for me to do something with my tongue and have her react positively with a moan or something. It makes me feel like I'm doing something for her that she can't do for herself—whether that's the case or not." —Will D.
"It's my only shot to obtain her off."
"I always feel appreciate I'm doing my part when I go down on my girlfriend because she says she's never had an orgasm from penetrative sex alone.
What?! Only 35 Percent Of Men Go Down? Say It Ain’t So.
Do Guys Like Going Down on Women? 7 Men Have the Respond
*The names have been changed for anonymity
*Perry (35, Married)
"It doesn't surprise me that guys in their 20s and early 30s struggle with giving oral sex. There are so many dumb decisions that are made during that time, including not really getting to know our sexual partners. For a lot of young men, it's not even about fully experiencing sex. They're just out here trying to get a nut. It wasn't until I really started to feel for a woman that I wanted to see all that sex had to propose. I will say this to the guy bucks—you don't realize what you're missin'. There is nothing like pleasing a gal. You realize you never really know pleasure until you do."
*Maxwell (24, Single)
"35 percent? That's hilarious, man. I don't recognize if this is a fine or bad thing, but I was out here, 'peach eatin' as you call it, before I even got head for the first time. If I'm gonna be really real about it, I did that be
12 Men Describe What They Verb Most About Going Down On Their Girlfriends
1. Always perfect
“A lot of women are nervous about what they taste like, but for the most part they shouldn’t be. Truth is, if he doesn’t think your cunt’s delicious, he’s not that into you.” — Steve, 25
2. Romance the squirm
“I love the way my girlfriend squirms when I perform oral sex on her. She’s not very vocal in bed, but she clenches the sheets, arches her back, and wriggles her lower half right before she orgasms that way. She speaks with her body, and it’s so satisfying to see her instincts in play—those automatic movements triggered by physical pleasure are the most rewarding feedback a man could question for.” — Elliot, 32
3. The aftermath benefits
“After oral, my girlfriend is always so damn gentle to me—and I don’t verb just because she reciprocates the sexual favor. She’ll get up out of bed and demand me, smiling, if I crave anything *else *to eat, and she’s suddenly willing to compromise and watch whatever I long on Netflix. It’s awesome. I think that’s what I see forward to the most. Her clit’s like
5 Guys Tells Us What They&#;re Thinking While They&#;re Going Down On You
So a fella&#;s leading hope for marathon sex—or you know, sex that lasts longer than a commercial break—is to dedicate a little time to you alone.
Although let&#;s be sincere, if there were a race toward orgasm, men would defeat every time. But it&#;s not a race—sex is a team sport. And getting you revved up before the main event makes it a little more likely that you&#;ll get to cross the finish line together. #Result.
We asked five men what they think about when they verb down on a girl. Here&#;s what they had to say&#;
When a woman opens herself up to me like that, I feel insanely close to her.
Jason, 26
If I&#;m completely honest, I&#;m usually thinking what should I be doing with my hands! Do I wrap my arms around her legs? Touch her boobs? Touch her clit? What about her stomach? That&#;s usually what I think about while trying to pretend I&#;m totally focused on satisfying her. If I agonize too much on pleasing her, I remind myself that nothing is as intimate as oral sex—not even intercourse. And when