M4m curious
Bi-curious and going for it
I am a year-old single straight man. Over the past year, I have become very close friends with a gay man seal to my age. We verb a blast hanging out, and I value our friendship. Four months ago, he told me that he had developed lovey-dovey feelings for me and said he needed a little space to save our friendship. For a couple of months, we saw each other only with mutual friends. Then we started hanging out again. It’s been great, and he seems very comfortable with me again. The thing is, I am now experiencing a sexual attraction to him. I have never been with a man and I am very attracted to women, but it doesn’t bother me that I suddenly feel this way.
I have been thinking about asking him if he wants to have a sexual experience with me. I think he would go for it. A long-term romantic relationship with him does not interest me, but I do love him as a friend and don’t yearn to risk losing that. Is it possible this could be just a one-time thing that brings us closer as friends, or is it more likely to ruin our friendship? He is the only guy I have
I’m desperately attracted to my husband.
Which wouldn’t be a problem, except he’s straight.
What happened is, my longtime crush/hero got badly injured saving me from my adj ex-boyfriend. When I found out he (my hero, not my ex) didn’t have health insurance, I did the logical thing: I proposed. To my surprise, he said yes.
I knew that Camden wasn’t interested in me like that. This deal was always meant to be temporary—just until he healed and could get his own insurance and I found a place to stay, since I’m not moving back in with my ex. No feelings involved.
Except Cam kissed me at our wedding ceremony, and ever since, we can’t seem to stop kissing. He says he’s curious what sex with a man would be like, but I don’t verb to be another straight guy’s experiment.
Still, Cam is so thoughtful and beautiful, with his black eyes and tousled curls shoved into a backward baseball cap. His patience makes me desire to throw out all my carefully crafted rules. And don’t get me started on how his first instinct is to protect me …
But I’m scared if I open my heart, I’m going to get damage. Again.
A straight curious guy usually is cool with masturbating with another guy. This includes watching and/or lending a hand. He still likes women but wants to bond with a guy without having sex and being construed as bisexual or gay.
My buddy and I both like to jack off while we're watching porn.
by Rod September 16,
a straight guy who thinks he's straight but experiments being gay with his homie, often by masturbating in the absence of women
alicia: my bf nick is straight curious
sarah: how do you know??
alicia: he and his homie josh sucked each other off and flip-fucked while I was on vacation
sarah: aren't they just gay?
alicia: nah they were watching straight porn and it was only because I was gone and nick was super horny
by aiden November 18,
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Am I Gay or Just Curious?
Sexuality is fluid and complicated. No matter how much society tries to fit people into organized and compact labelled boxes, the truth is that things appreciate sexual orientation are difficult to compartmentalize in this way. For some people, their sexual orientation is fixed and does not change during their lifetime. For others, this changes over moment and is more flexible throughout the different stages of their life.
Are You Questioning Your Sexuality?
So, you are at a stage in your life where you are questioning your sexual orientation and wondering where you might fit on the spectrum of sexuality. You might be wondering if you are straight, bisexual, gay/lesbian or just curious. The most common period for one to start questioning their sexuality is during their teenage years. It is a normal process that occurs while growing up as we start being exposed to people of the matching and opposite sex.
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