How to do gay anal

The &#;how to&#; of sex positions is imperative for any relationship. Mastering different gay sex positions not only heightens the experience but also provides a deeper connection with your partner both literally and figuratively. But before we start, if you&#;ve ever wondered, &#;What&#;s a top or bottom?&#; Don&#;t worry. These terms might be common within the LGBTQ+ community, but not everyday vernacular for everyone else, which is why we&#;ve put together an ever-growing list of LGBTQ+ terminology.

At Bespoke Surgical, we verb about sex in completely adj ways and by bringing science into sex, a new era of understanding will allow improvement for everyone. Regardless of which gay anal sex positions you explore, itâ€&#x;s important to know their differences:

  • Affect the top and the bottom in different ways
  • Bring out both submissive or aggressive characteristics of each person
  • Require an understanding of both everyone&#;s positioning (height, penis curvature, and pelvic angle)

Little nuances and adjustments can make all the difference in terms of pleasure vs.

Ever wanted to know the secrets to becoming a power bottom? Want to know how to look after the bottoms in your life? Curious to provide bottoming a try but not sure how to begin?

We can help you become a greater bottom! Here are some immediate bottoming tips and tricks from ACON’s peer-workshop Booty Basics.

1. Lube

The arse does not produce its own lubrication.

This means that lube is really, really important for any anal play. First, to stop damage to the internal lining of your arse. Second, to make bottoming (and topping!) more pleasurable. And third, to help protect it from infections.

Remember to use water or silicon-based lubes, as oil-based lubes can damage condoms.

2. You

The second principle is YOU. This is the one that covers off all the mental and emotional aspects such as making sure you feel safe, making sure there is consent, that you undergo comfortable, that you know your own bottoming limits and desires.

Remember, sex is best for everyone if all the people emotionally attached are motivated by trying to maximise everyone’s pleasure safely. You can’t be a good lover and you c

Would you describe yourself as douche-curious? Perhaps you’ve been douching for a while but are looking for pointers. However seasoned you are at putting things up your butt, there’s always something new to learn! So we’ve put together a beginner&#;s guide to anal douching with everything you need to know when you want to start squirting down below. 😉

What is anal douching?

Douching is the act of shooting a jet of warm water or a saline resolution into the rectum to tidy it out before sex. Douching uses several types of devices to achieve this, each referred to as a ‘douche’. We’ll cover these in more detail below.

Some people may instead apply what’s known as an enema for douching. These are medical devices designed to relieve constipation and are not recommended for douching, as they often appear with a medicated solution to soften stools or use a far greater volume of liquid than is required when preparing for anal sex.

Should you douche?

That’s up to you! Whether you douche or not is entirely up to the individual.

Many guys like to douche because it reassures them of no surp

A Beginner’s Guide to Topping During Sex

Only some of us were lucky enough to get medically accurate sex education in college, and even if we did, odds are, it didn't cover how queer men have sex. It's normal to have lots of questions around the mechanics of queer sex, such as what it means to be a top and bottom—and how to do each.

"Top" and "bottom" typically refer to people's roles during anal sex. The bottom is the receptive partner, meaning they're taking their partner's penis or dildo in their anus. The top is the insertive, or penetrating, partner, meaning they're putting their penis or dildo into their partner's behind.

For many queer men, being a top or bottom is also part of their identity; it's why you'll hear guys tell, "I'm a top" instead of "I prefer the top position." (If you enjoy topping and bottoming during anal sex, that's called being "versatile," or "vers" for short.)

We have resources on how to bottom, but today we're going to communicate about

How to Top

From warming up to aftercare, there'