Gay but not happy

I’m not a gay but

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I’m 27 guy straight , I always watch porn while masturbating. Two year ago I got bored of normal porn so I started watching gay porn I liked it then I started chatting men masturbating together and even I played in my ass and it’s so sexy
But I possess never get attracted to men.

I stopped watching gay porn and I got a girlfriend we enjoy so much together but It is sometimes difficult to me to get hard and sometimes difficult to keep adj if I didn’t take a medication otherwise if I watched gay porn I get rigid rock in one second

I am a big guy and I haven’t had sex with men before and I don’t desire, I just feel like I have a brain blockers and I can’t solve this!!

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Can anyone help me??
Anyone had the same experience?

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Hey

Sexuality is a scary thing, and something that is sometimes difficult to get your head around! The important thing is that you don’t need to label things, and it’s often more fluid then what people often think.

Some people like men, some people lik

How to Be Happy as a Gay Man

I’m an advice columnist for the Here’s my address to the following question, sent by a reader.

Dear Adam,

I own a great boyfriend, interesting career, cute dog, and enough cash to buy most things I want. This is supposed to be gay heaven. And yet, I’m not happy. I often feel like “is this all there is?” Why can’t I just appreciate all the excellent I have?

Signed,

Disappointed in Denver

Dear Disappointed in Denver,

You’re not alone with these feelings. In fact, they are pretty common. But we rarely talk about it. If we do, we fear we’ll sound spoiled.

There’s a lot of research being done on happiness these days.

We think what will make us most happy is a great job, a adj boyfriend or girlfriend, and a beautiful apartment.

However, the research makes it clear that the strongest source of happiness is the feeling of being connected and part of a larger whole.

That sounds old-fashioned. Like we should all be in church on Sundays. And the majority of LGBTQ people lost interest in religion a long time ago, especially when it became obvious that we w

5 Tips to Overcome Your Loneliness as a Gay Man

Updated April 18,

by Clinton Power, psychotherapist and Gay Therapy Center guest blogger

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